i'm his son, and i'm affiliated with him and the bergin crew. "and nobody affiliated with us is taking a backwards step. so, now you know for the future. you got a choice. you fight until you can't fight no more, or you come back here and you deal with us. that's the way it's going to work out." >> kroft: but gotti says not all of his father's lessons were about fighting, and he told us this one about dancing. >> gotti, jr.: he always loved to watch other people dance. he'd say, "john, come on, go up there and dance. your mom and i can't dance, but you go ahead and dance." i'd say, "i'm not going to go up and dance, dad. i'm not going to dance." so he'd tell my wife, he says "kim, go ahead, go dance. so she looks at me, like, "is it okay if i go dance?" and i go like this to her-- don't go dance. so my father caught the move, he didn't press it any further. afterwards, he pulls me off to the side-- never to embarrass me. that's the kind of guy he was, he wouldn't embarrass me. so he pulled me off to the side and he says, "what was that all about